Please enjoy this follow up blog by Debra Fileta.
“Did you receive confirmation when you met your husband?”
I had just finished up speaking to a group of singles in their twenties and thirties, when a young woman came up to me with this question.
For a moment, my mind blanked as I tried to figure out what she meant. Was she talking about confirmation like with my airline tickets? Or maybe that class Catholic kids take?
And then it dawned on me: She meant “confirmation” from God. As in: “Did God give you some sort of a sign when you met your husband that he was the one you were going to marry?”
“No, actually,” I said.
She looked surprised. So I quickly explained.
When it comes to relationships, so many people are waiting for that magical moment. But whether or not that magical moment even exists, it can’t be trusted, because it’s not “confirmation”—it’s feelings.
When I met my husband for the first time, I had no clue he would be my husband. Read More...
