15 Billion will be spent on Valentine’s Day. Men will spend twice as much as women. It’s big business. 200 million spent on roses and 200 million on cards. It’s also a big day for pets! Americans will spend $367 million on their dogs. It’s a big day for chocolates, flowers and very high expectations. 53% of women say they will end a relationship if they don’t get a Valentine card, yet 85% of cards are bought by women.The average American will spend 116 dollars. Perhaps you’re feeling left out?
Millions ask,”am I special to someone else?” Millions are feeling kind of ‘out of it’ or disappointed. It’s not just young school kids who wish they could get a Valentine card or even a note of affection..
What is Valentine’s Day? There are more tales of the “origins” of Valentine’s Day than arrows in Cupid’s quiver. As expected, most have something to do with pagan rituals. Our modern glorification of sentimental love is reflected in a flurry of cards (2nd only to Xmas), millions in roses and heart shaped chocolates has little to do with Saint Valentine.
One of the most common legends is that of the 3rd-century priest named Valentine who secretly performed marriages when Emperor Claudius II reportedly forbade marriage believing the soldiers were halfhearted and homesick. He was imprisoned for his act of defiance and while in prison cured his jailer’s daughter of blindness. The day before his execution (supposedly Feb. 14, 269), he sent a farewell message to the daughter signed “From your Valentine.”
And so a tradition begins…
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The first Valentine card was sent by Charles, Duke of Orleans, to his wife in 1415 when he was a prisoner in the Tower of London. It’s still on display at the British Museum seen at the left. Even by the Middle Ages, the church’s hope for a more spiritual, saint-centered Valentine’s Day was lost.
Eventually, the idea that Valentine was actually the name of a person disappeared. By 1450, a valentine was the name of one’s sweetheart. In 1533, it was a folded piece of paper. In Great Britain, Valentine’s Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century.
By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one’s feelings was discouraged.
Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine’s Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s the first mass-produced valentine cards in America. Valentine’s Day has been a big deal at least since the Middle Ages.
If you feel left out and perhaps even unwanted on Valentine’s Day, God has a way reminding US of His love! Here is a one story…“Hurrying through Chicago’s commuter train station, I had an “Aha!” moment that stopped me in my tracks. I’d just left the candy counter where I’d bought Valentine’s treats for an upcoming party a few of us were planning for our church’s single moms. Doing so took my thoughts back to a cookout the previous summer, for which I had covered the cost. The single moms, their children, and I enjoyed a glorious day at a local sunshine-drenched beach, conversing and stuffing ourselves with burgers, chips, and all the trimmings.
As the afternoon ended, I sat among the moms at the picnic table as they enthusiastically divided up the leftover hot dogs, sodas, and desserts. No-one thought to offer me a thing. Though no-one suspected it, my feelings were a little bruised. No, I didn’t need the food. And most of the moms had given little thought to where the picnic spread had come from. But the slight was significant enough that I recalled it in the train station six months later.
Then it hit me! How much more slighted God must feel when, as recipients of his enormous generosity, we’re reluctant to share a portion of our resources with him. Just as I didn’t need the potato salad, he doesn’t need our money. But he does crave our gratitude—our acknowledgement that all we have is from him.”
While Valentine’s story may not have much to do with roses, chocolates, and heart-shaped chocolates Christians have long understood that love is much costlier, stronger, and lasting and more difficult than the cheap romanticism of our age.
God’s Valentine for YOU really tells YOU what true love is.
This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another I John 4:1-11
How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! I John3:1
Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. Ephesians 5:1-2
How precious to me are your thoughts, oh God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand— when I awake, I am still with you. Psalm 139:17-18
God is in a relentless passionate pursuit of YOU! No matter who you are or where you are, no matter how far it takes He will find you! His Love will never be exhausted in His pursuit of you!
With His Love,
